Tip #5 Message Back Fast, Get to the Point, But Don’t Be Sleazy
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Tinder is best for making connections in the present moment, not for planning a date sometime in the future. Be charming, but also make your intentions known. Simple, straightforward, and flirty messages work best. If you were flirting with someone in real life you would want to seem nice and interested. Use the same rules for your tinder messages.
Going into detail about what you want to do sexually takes all the mystery out of it. Also, there may be girls that are just teasing the guys on Tinder in order to see how much they can get a guy worked up. Do not fall for that game. Ask the woman to meet in person quickly, preferably within no more than two days of exchanging messages.
It’s a good idea to meet up and make sure the sexual attraction really exists. Choose a place that is convenient for both parties. Pick a public place that’s not too much pressure, like a coffee shop or local bar. If there is not chemistry, it’ll be easy to excuse yourself politely after one beer or cup of coffee. If you’d like to take it to the next level, bold, but also be respectful.
If the meet-up is going well, you can keep the fun going by asking her back to your place. You can ask her to come over and have a drink. Maybe you have a great roof on your apartment building, or you could ask her to watch a movie. If there is a connection, you’ll both know it. If not, move on. Tinder should be fun.
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