There IS, in fact, dating in the Amish culture
Because of the strictness of the Amish community, many people speculate that there is no dating period and that marriages are arranged only by the parents. On the contrary, Amish singles do have opportunities to get to know one another after Church on Sundays. If two singles like each other, the male offers to give the girl a ride home. They then stay up talking until the wee hours of the morning, when he goes home.